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Discover expert relationship advice designed to elevate your intimacy and confidence. From everyday communication wins to inclusive sexual wellness and body-safe sex toy guides, we share practical, judgement free tips from a trusted, female founded UK brand. Enhance your experience, explore your pleasure, and build a healthier, more satisfying love life on your terms.
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How to Use a Suction Dildo: Top Tips & Position Ideas
Suction cup dildos are one of the most versatile sex toys you can add to your collection. It doesn't matter if you’re flying solo or spicing things up with a partner, the hands-free fun they provide makes them a go-to favorite. If you’ve ever wondered how to use a suction dildo properly or what positions feel the best, this guide has you covered. Why Choose a Suction Dildo? Unlike regular dildos, suction toys come with a sturdy base that sticks to smooth surfaces. That means: -Hands-free play – giving you freedom to focus on pleasure. -Versatility – use them on walls, floors, chairs, or even shower tiles. -Partner fun – they can be a great addition to couple’s play. Top Tips for Using a Suction Dildo 1. Choose the Right Surface For the best grip, stick your dildo to a flat, smooth surface—like bathroom tiles, mirrors, glass, or a hardwood floor. Rough or porous surfaces won’t hold the suction as well. 2. Lube Is Your Best Friend Always use water-based lubricant. This not only makes insertion smoother but also enhances sensation and comfort. 3. Experiment with Angles You don’t have to keep your toy upright. Try sticking it at different angles or heights to mimic different positions or create new sensations. 4. Clean Before & After Suction cup dildos often get exposed to various surfaces, so clean thoroughly with warm water and toy cleaner to keep things hygienic. Position Ideas to Try Doggie Style Stick the dildo low on a wall, floor, or even the side of your bed. Get on all fours and back up onto it—perfect for hands-free thrusting. Shower Fun Place your toy on bathroom tiles or a glass shower wall. The warm water and steam can make this experience even more sensual. Cowgirl Ride Attach it to the floor, then straddle and ride it at your own pace. Great for controlling depth and rhythm. Missionary Twist Place the dildo vertically on the floor, then lie on your back and slide onto it. You can use pillows to adjust your hips and angle. Double the Fun with a Partner One of you can ride the suction dildo while the other uses hands, tongue, or another toy—turning solo play into shared pleasure. Suction dildos open up a whole new world of positions and sensations. The key is to get creative, explore different surfaces, and find what feels good for your body. With the right lube, a safe surface, and a bit of imagination, you’ll discover just how much fun hands-free play can be.
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How to Use Anal Beads: A Beginner-Friendly Guide
Ready to explore new sensations? Our beginner’s guide to anal beads covers everything you need to know: safety tips, how to use them, and ways to make your play extra pleasurable.
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Rechargeable vs Battery Toys: Which Should You Choose?
Stuck between battery-powered or rechargeable vibrators? We compare costs, power, eco impact & more — plus why Nirobi’s toys are mostly rechargeable.
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Are Sex Toys Only for Solo Play? Spoiler: Nope!
Think sex toys are only for solo nights in? Discover how vibrators, plugs & more can turn up the heat with a partner.
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Anal-Safe Sex Toys: What You Need to Know
Worried about anal safety? Learn why flared bases, smooth materials, and proper hygiene matter—and see Nirobi’s top-safe picks.
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Sex Toy Care 101: Clean, Store, and Stay Safe
Cleaning your sex toys is essential for safe and sexy play. Discover how to clean, dry, and store them properly.
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What Should Your Sex Toy Be Made Of? Let’s Get Material, Babe
Not all toys are created equal. Discover which materials are body-safe (and which are a no-go) plus the best Nirobi toys for every kind of play.
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Can You Use a Vibrator Too Much? Here's the Buzz (Literally)
Wondering if you're vibing a little too hard? Discover the truth about vibrator use, how to mix it up, and Nirobi-approved toys for your solo play.
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How Loud Is This Vibrator? Your Guide to Quiet Pleasure
Want a discreet vibrator that won’t wake the neighbours? Discover which sex toys are whisper-quiet and perfect for private play, plus Nirobi’s top silent picks.
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