The Old Myth: Sex Toys Are Just for You-Time
A lot of people still think sex toys are a private affair, reserved for solo nights under the covers.
But newsflash: sex toys are one of the hottest ways to level up intimacy with a partner (or partners!) — and they can bring you closer, not push you apart.
What Can You Actually Use Together?
Pretty much everything! From vibrators to butt plugs to strokers, toys are perfect for exploring new sensations together.
Here’s how different toys can heat things up with someone special:
🔥 Vibrators
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Use a clitoral vibe during penetration — many vulva owners say they need external stimulation to climax.
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Try a bullet vibe on nipples, inner thighs, or even his perineum.
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Play a game of “who controls the remote” with a wearable vibe out on a date.
🍑 Butt Toys
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Anal plugs or prostate massagers can feel mind-blowing for all genders.
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Remember: always use lube, start small, and choose toys with a flared base.
✋ Strokers & Rings
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Penis sleeves and textured strokers aren’t just solo fun. Use them during oral or mutual masturbation.
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Vibrating cock rings add buzz for both of you during intercourse.
🥂 Teledildonics & App Toys
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Long-distance or just playful? Try app-controlled vibes. They’re a game changer for couples, whether you’re across town or across the world.
How Toys Can Actually Strengthen Your Relationship
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Better communication: You have to talk about what feels good (and what doesn’t).
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New shared experiences: Breaking out of a routine builds excitement and trust.
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More orgasms: (Self-explanatory… but worth shouting about!)
Pleasure Is Always Better Shared
Sex toys aren’t just solo sidekicks — they’re for turning up intimacy, connection, and fun with someone else. Whether it’s a playful vibe under the sheets or a butt plug during doggy style, there are endless ways to explore each other’s bodies.
