Why Invest in a Sex Toy?

Sex toys are more than just fun; they’re tools for self-discovery, empowerment, and wellness. They help you explore your body, discover new sensations, and enhance intimacy in your relationships. Plus, regular sexual activity—solo or partnered—can reduce stress, improve sleep, and boost your overall mood.

If you’re new to sex toys, the first step is understanding your preferences and comfort level. With that in mind, let’s dive into the key factors to consider.

Step 1: Identify Your Desires and Goals

Before choosing a toy, take some time to think about what you’re looking for. Ask yourself:

• Are you interested in external stimulation, internal stimulation, or both?
• Are you looking for something to use alone, with a partner, or both?
• Do you want something discreet and beginner-friendly?
  Understanding your preferences will narrow down your options and help you find a toy that meets your needs.

Step 2: Explore the Types of Toys

Sex toys come in many shapes and functions, each designed for different types of pleasure. Here’s a breakdown of the most common categories:

1. Vibrators
2. Dildos
3. Clitoral Stimulators
4. Couples’ Toys
5. Anal Toys

Step 3: Choose the Right Material

The material of your toy plays a significant role in comfort and safety. Look for body-safe materials such as:

• Silicone: Soft, non-porous, and easy to clean. All the toys at NIROBI are body safe silicone!
• Glass: Durable, smooth, and temperature-responsive.
• Stainless Steel: Sleek, body-safe, and excellent for temperature play.
  Avoid toys made from jelly or rubber unless they’re clearly labeled as phthalate-free and body-safe.

Step 4: Consider Features and Functions

Modern sex toys often come with a variety of features to enhance your experience. Here are some to look out for:

• Vibration Settings: Adjustable speeds and patterns allow for customisation.
• Waterproof Design: Perfect for bath or shower use.
• Rechargeable Battery: More eco-friendly and cost-effective than disposable batteries.
• Quiet Operation: Ideal for discretion.

Step 5: Start with Something Simple

As a beginner, it’s a good idea to start with a toy that’s simple, versatile, and not too intimidating. A compact bullet vibrator or a small, silicone dildo is often a great first choice. These toys are easy to use, discreet, and provide a range of sensations without overwhelming you.

We recommend our Confetti Dildo to complete beginners!

Step 6: Prioritise Comfort and Safety

Your comfort and safety are paramount. Always:

• Use water-based lubricant to enhance comfort and reduce friction.
• Clean your toy thoroughly before and after use with warm water and toy-safe cleaner.
• Check the manufacturer’s instructions for proper care and usage.

Step 7: Shop from a Trusted Brand

Choosing a reputable brand ensures you’re getting a high-quality, body-safe product. Here at NIROBI we prioritise education, inclusivity, and customer support. As a women-founded company, we’re passionate about creating toys that are safe, accessible, and designed to empower you on your journey to self-discovery.

Step 8: Embrace the Journey

Choosing your first sex toy is an exciting step toward embracing your pleasure and exploring your sexuality. Remember, there’s no “right” or “wrong” way to use a toy—it’s all about what feels good for you. Be patient, experiment with different sensations, and most importantly, have fun!

Your sexual wellness is a vital part of your overall health and happiness, and investing in a sex toy is a step toward prioritising yourself. By considering your desires, exploring your options, and choosing a toy that aligns with your needs, you’re setting yourself up for a fulfilling and empowering experience.

Ready to take the plunge? Explore our beginner-friendly collection and discover a toy that’s just right for you. Let’s make 2025 the year of unapologetic pleasure and self-love!