Our to tips on safe and fun anal play!

  1. Choose the right butt plug: Butt plugs come in various sizes, shapes, and materials. For beginners, it's best to start with a small, smooth, and tapered plug made from body-safe materials such as silicone, stainless steel, or glass. Make sure the plug has a flared base or handle to prevent it from getting lost inside the body.
  2. Prepare yourself: Before using a butt plug, it's important to relax and prepare your body. Empty your bowels and clean the anal area thoroughly with warm water and mild soap. Consider taking a warm bath or shower to help relax your muscles.
  3. Use plenty of lubricant: The anus does not produce natural lubrication like the vagina, so it's essential to use a generous amount of water-based or silicone-based lubricant to ensure smooth insertion and minimize discomfort. Apply lube to both the plug and the anal opening.
  4. Start slowly: Begin by gently massaging the anal area and gradually inserting the tip of the butt plug into the anus. Take your time and listen to your body's cues. If you feel any discomfort or resistance, stop and apply more lube or try a smaller plug.
  5. Insertion technique: Use a gentle, rocking motion to ease the plug into the anus. Avoid pushing or forcing the plug in too quickly, as this can cause pain or injury. Once the widest part of the plug is inside, the rest should slide in more easily.
  6. Find a comfortable position: Experiment with different positions to find what feels most comfortable and pleasurable for you. Some people prefer lying on their side with one leg raised, while others may prefer squatting or kneeling.
  7. Explore sensations: Once the plug is inserted, take some time to get used to the sensation and explore different levels of pressure and movement. You can try gently rocking the plug back and forth, contracting and relaxing your anal muscles, or stimulating other erogenous zones.
  8. Communication is key: If you're using a butt plug with a partner, communication is essential. Check in regularly to see how you're both feeling and adjust the intensity or pace as needed. Use a safe word or signal to indicate if you need to stop or slow down.
  9. Enjoy and relax: Once the plug is in place and you're comfortable, you can engage in other sexual activities or simply enjoy the sensation of fullness and stimulation. Remember to relax and breathe deeply to enhance relaxation and pleasure.
  10. Removal and cleanup: When you're ready to remove the plug, do so slowly and gently. Use the base or handle to guide it out of the anus. Clean the plug thoroughly with warm water and mild soap before and after each use, and store it in a clean, dry place.

Remember that using a butt plug should be a pleasurable and enjoyable experience, so take your time, listen to your body, and prioritize comfort and safety. If you experience any pain, discomfort, or bleeding during or after using a butt plug, stop immediately and consult a healthcare professional.